
He designed it to be so intense, so exciting, so memorable, so fun (!) that He wants us to share it with one person: our future wife.

Some of the places you can find these verses are Hebrews 13:4 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 1 Thessalonians 4:7 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 Colossians 3:5Ī friend from the Netherlands shared some other great verses on this topic: In Song of Solomon 2:7 Song of Solomon 3:5 and Song of Solomon 8:4 there is a strong warning against premarital sex when it says, "Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires." In other words, save sex for marriage! While you won't find that specific phrase used in the Bible, the Bible repeatedly talks about "sexual immorality" or "sexual sins." These references to sex are talking about any sexual activity outside of marriage, so if you're having sex (or thinking about having sex) without being married. Some consequences include dealing with the possibility of pregnancy, acquiring or sharing a sexually transmitted disease, and the most underrated - but possibly most impacting - are the emotional issues that sexually active teens struggle with and take into their marriage.īut you asked for biblical evidence, so let's look at the following verses, along with some questions to consider: Does the Bible say pre-marital sex is wrong? YES! Why? There are tons of practical, common-sense reasons that have significant consequences. (See also, "Is it OK to kiss my girlfriend?") But, just as it would be unwise to ice skate on a lake in the middle of summer, it's also unwise to have sex with anyone who's not your husband or wife.

The Bible is filled with lots of info about sex, and believe it or not, God thinks it's a great idea! And why shouldn't He, He invented it. I believe I'm going to marry her, but I want to know where in the Bible it says not to have sex before marriage. I am a Christian and I have sex with my girlfriend.
